Why do some people think their needs are my important than mine? Why can't that person take a step back and realize situations aren't always what they seem? Why am I not allowed to stand up for myself and do what I want to do without being made to feel guilty for it? I am at a point in my life where I have to make selfish decisions if I want to enjoy the rest of my life. I've got to put me first, but how do I make the needy person in my life see this without coming off as a bitch? I don't know. If I knew the answer my life would be so much easier.